December 29, 2002

Our Holy Family

Funerals
When I wrote last week’s column, I noted that there were seven funerals the week before Christmas. By the end of the week there were nine -- and then two more (on Monday and Christmas Eve). Let’s continue to pray for all those who lost loved ones.

Christmas Continues
While the stores are being stripped of leftover Christmas merchandise and Valentines Day displays are already going up, let’s not forget that we are in the midst of the Christmas season. Keep the lights burning brightly, play Christmas carols, enjoy the company of neighbors, family and friends. The Savior is born -- don’t be too quick to stick him in bubble wrap and put him in the attic for another year!

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Past Columns:
Dec 22: I'll be Home for Christmas
Dec 15: Viva!
Dec 8: Advent Spirituality
Dec 1:Praying at Mass
Nov 24: Doing Thanks
Nov17: Faith Has Its Awards
Nov 10: Parking Lot Update
Nov3: Daughters of Mary
Oct27: Father Richard
Oct 20: Changing Seasons
Oct 13:Technology Update
Oct 6: Youth Ministers
Sept 29: Who's Here?
Sept 22: God the Unfair
Sept 15: The Joy of Judy
Sept 8: Facing the Terrible Day
Sep 1: Sharing the Faith
Aug 25:Empty Shelves
Aug 18: Comemmorating Sept. 11th
Aug 11: Taking Time To See
August 4: Moving Music
July 28:Meet the Missionaries
July 21: Press One Now
July 14: Having Our Say
July 6: One Nation Under God
June 30: Anointing the Sick
June 23: Giving Thanks to God
June 16: Father's Day
June 9: Fall Mass Schedule
June 2: Summer Plans
May 26: Spreading the Faith
May 19: Passing Grace
May 12: Changing Times
May 5: Reason for Hope

April 28: Changing Ministry
April 21: The Poor Are Hurt Again

April 14: Celebrating 50 Days
April 7: Where have they put him?
March 31: Alleluia! Alleluia!
March 24: Hardly Hosanna
March 17: Roll The Stone Back
March 10: Here's Mud In Your Eye
March 3: Our Local Drought
Feb 24: Welcoming Bishop Murphy
Feb 17: We Will Rise Again
Feb 10: Very Good Now
Feb 3: The Multi Cultural Church
Jan 27: Appealing Words
Jan 20:Our Wonderful School
Jan 13: Changing Times
Jan 6: Farewell Father Augustine

Columns from 2001



What makes a family “holy”? Certainly not its size. Jesus, Mary and Joseph were only three but we know that holy families come in all sizes. What makes a family “holy”? Certainly not where it lives. Jesus, Mary and Joseph began the first years off their lives together living in a foreign land (Egypt) as refugees from Herod’s murderous plots. Later they settled up north in Nazareth, a poor underdeveloped town where the homes were mostly caves cut into the side of Nazareth’s hill. (For this reason, many people looked down on anyone who came from Nazareth.)

What makes a family “holy”? Certainly not how much money it has. Jesus, Mary and Joseph were probably not among the poorest of the poor, since Joseph -- and later Jesus -- was a carpenter. But they were not wealthy. What makes a family “holy”? Certainly not it’s composition. When they started out, Jesus, Mary and Joseph were three -- but when Joseph dies, Mary is left as single mother, caring for her teenaged son.

In searching for what makes a family “holy”it’s clear to see that it isn’t the outward “trappings” that make for holiness. Rather it’s a relationship of trust -- trust in one another (clearly demonstrated in the lives of Jesus, Mary and Joseph), and trust in God. A holy family is also a family in which God dwells. Some people don’t consider that God actually dwells in their home. But consider this -- since you went to church today, and received Jesus in Word and Communion, God is dwelling in you -- and now you bring that Jesus home.
In your holy family, people consider “What would Jesus do?” when it comes to sharing, and helping, and listening and guiding. In your holy family people notice that the gifts of God are alive in one another and they strive to encourage and support those gifts.

These are the same attitudes we live out here in the larger holy family of St. Brigid’s.

May the love of Jesus, Mary and Joseph during this Christmas season continue to fill your family with holiness.

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