October 28, 2001

Figuring It Out


Cool Way to Pray
If you’d like to try out a new interactive prayer site online, go to the St. Brigid’s home page and click on the “Church Interactive” link. Lots of people tried it last week.

Away at College?
If you know of a St. Brigid parishioner who is away at college, you can help us stay in touch through our parish’s weekly “letter from home”. Send in their name and e-mail address
just click here.


Today’s Bible Quote
“The Lord is a God of justice who knows no favorites.”
-Sirach 35:12

Technology Ministry
If you’d like togive your time and expertise at helping our parish connect its telephone systems or develop its computer networking or work on its website, you can let us know by filling in our
online form

El Salvador Trip
If you’d like to see the parish’s mission trip to
El Salvador online, you can see photos and a travelogue by
clicking here.

Want to e-mail Father Ralph?



Past Columns:
Oct 21:Prayers for Our Time
Oct 14: Warring Words
Oct 7: Getting more from the Word

Sept 30: Saying Goodbye
Sept 23: Gray Days
Sept 16: This Week's Tragedy
Sep.9: Summer Vacation
Sep 2: I Used to be an Embryo
August 26: Holy Walking
August 19: Just Like Family
Aug 12:Incredible Forgiveness
August 5: Diocesan Doings

July 29: On A Mission
July 22: Piecing Together
July 15th: Unpacking St Brigids
July 8th: Happy to Be Here
July 1st : First Words


Last Monday evening we had a remarkable gathering of people who came together to continue to deal with the aftermath of the September 11th terrorist attack. A panel of presenters included social workers, a chaplain in the army reserves, a corrections officer, bereavment counsellors, and a nurse and their topics ranged from dealing with our own trauma and stress to how to help our children deal with their fears. We learned about how to get support for those in the military and their families and practical steps to take to relieve our own fears and stresses.

The conversation among those who attended was so helpful, as people shared their own experiences and offered advice to those struggling with question about their own feelings or the reaction of family members.

I came away from the evening with several insights:

We have never experienced anything like this before and so it’s normal not to know how to react. All our reactions (tiredness, anger, sadness, stress, being in a “fog”, etc.) are normal and we’ll need time to work through this.
We need to be good to ourselves and others around us. Pay attention to our own physical and emotional needs, and let others know we’re available for them.
Talking is healing. When we tell the stories of what we experienced on September 11th, or after, we get healed in little ways. When we listen to others sharing their experiences, we offer them healing. There are people who can’t yet share their feeling about these events and we can’t make them talk, but we can let them know we’re interested and available whenever they are ready.
We’re only beginning. This devastating experience will take a long, long time to overcome, but we can overcome it. Prayer is such an important part of this, as is the time we spend together.

So I’m so grateful for all who came out on that remarkable Monday evening. And yes, God came too.

Come Visit Our Online Tour of our Youth Group's Trip To El Salvador!

For the Record..

See Father's Ralph's first spoken greeting to the community at St. Brigid..

Italian Mass
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Spanish Mass
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Haitian Mass
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Mass in English
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