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Jesus tells his dicisples to call God Abba,
the Aramaic equivalent of Dad or Daddy or Pops
( or whatever endearing name you call your father). So on this Fathers
Day, we ought to pause and remember not only our own fathers, but the
Father of us all.
Try this little exercise: Take a piece of
paper and write down the good qualities you see in different fathers you
know. Then on another sheet of paper, write down the quailites you see
in God. Then compare the two lists.
Of course we have an insight into God our
Father because of our relationship with our own father. So often we see
the goodness in our own Dads and then imagine that goodness multiplied
and amplified in God. (Sometimes people also project their fathers
weaknesses on God too and this can be a reason that some people struggle
with their relationship with God.)
This little exercise can help in two ways:
We can appreciate how our fathers have helped us to grow closer to God
through their supporting love, care, forgiveness and generosity. And those
who are fathers can look to see what God-like qualities they already show
and which theyll want to grow in.
When you see or call your Dad this weekend,
why not take the time to share with him some of the things youve
noticed about how he has shown you the qualities of God? Take the time
to thank him for those good qualities. And be sure to thank God our Father
for blessing your Dad with those strengths.
For people who struggle with their relationship
with their fathers or with God, Fathers Day could be an opportunity
to let go of some of the past hurts and to be open to a new year of openness
and growth.
To all the Fathers in our parish, I ask God to bless you with wisdom and
understanding, strength and courage, gentleness and compassion, and much
love.
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