From time to time I turn on the C-Span network and watch congressional hearings. Sometimes the people who are summoned before congress are accompanied by their lawyer and just before they give testimony, they lean over and the lawyer whispers something to them. They then answer (or refuse to answer) the question, based on the lawyer’s advice.
I’m sure it must be a bit nerve-wracking to face members of congress, sitting in the glare of the Klieg lights and cameras, so the witnesses must be very grateful to have their lawyer at their side to guide them.
So it is with our relationship with God. In today’s gospel, Jesus tell his disciples that they will be sent another “Advocate” -- the Holy Spirit. He assures us that since we are his disciples we don’t have to face the glare of life alone and unaided. The Holy Spirit “whispers” to us what we ought to say and when we should just be silent.
When I am faced with what choices to make, what to say to someone, what to preach at Mass, what to write in this column each week, etc. I first turn to the Holy Spirit and ask for a whisper.
And while I don’t hear actual words in my ears, I do feel blessed that God is with me and that if I am still enough and listen past all the external and internal noise, I do receive guidance from the Holy Spirit.
Some people don’t trust their lawyer and they don’t follow good advice --- usually that’s when emotion takes over logic. That can happen to us in prayer too. God gives us divine direction, but we can sometimes be so caught up in the emotions of a situation, that the voice of the Advocate is distorted or drowned out altogether.
The good news is that God is continually patient with us. Jesus knew that the apostles didn’t always listen to or understand what he said -- and he was right there, physically in their midst. He knows that they (and we) don’t always get the message of the Holy Spirit either. But that’s not an excuse. As Pentecost approaches, let us open ourselves more to the presence of the Holy Spirit in our midst.
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Due to our deficit we made some hard decisions to cut expenses throughout the parish. One of the “victims” to these tough economic times were the 1,500 flowers we gave away on Mother’s Day to each of the mothers who were at mass. It was a nice tradition, but it was hard to pay for flowers when we were cutting staff salaries to make ends meet.
But you’ll notice that we are indeed giving a plant to each mother this year. That’s due to the generosity of Carole O’Sullivan and the O’Sullivan Children’s Foundation and the hard work of Bill Baffi from Flowers by Carole on Post Ave. We’re grateful for this generous gift.
And we’re grateful for our mothers.
Happy Mother’s Day!
We’ll gather for a Eucharistic celebration on Sunday, June 13th at the 11:30 mass, followed by a reception in Code Auditorium. All invited.
Let me know if you’re interested in helping with the reception.
Past Columns
May 2: After Judas Left
April 25: Hearing the Voice
April 18: Back to Work
April 11: The Locker Room
April 4: Easter Nonsense
March 28: Small Comfort in Agony
March 21: the Lure of Palms
March 14: Mud-ludscious
March 7: If at first you dont...
February 28: Drop Your Nets
February 21: On a Mission
February 14: The Start of Lent
February 7: Faithful Giving
January 31: Haiti Update
January 24: Descent into Hell
January 17: No wine? No whine!
January 10: The Next Decade
January 3: He's not just ours
Dec 27: Christmas Blessings
Dec 20: The Visitation
Dec 13: Our Lady of Guadalupe
Dec 6: One Thousand Voices
Nov 29: 2012 or This week?
Nov 22: Thanksgiving 2009
Nov 15: Convent News
Nov 8: Why did she give?
Nov 1: Saints Alive!
Columns from 2009